I couldn't believe that my baby was 3 weeks old and now I really can't believe that he is already 1 month old!! Well its true, one month ago was the best, most amazing yet
scariest day of our lives when we welcomed our sweet little baby
Haylen into the world. It all started @ 8pm September 21 when we went to the hospital to get induced. I'm not to sure what the device is called that they used to induce me but they put it next to my cervix to bring on contractions then send me home. Well we were home for a while, and around 12:00 am I felt my first contractions. After pacing our house for a few hours, at 4:00 am the device fell out and we headed to the hospital and the fun began. At 7:00 am I was 3 cm
dilated and having horrible back labour. I was able to endure it for a few more hours until I broke down around 4:00 pm and got an epidural....what a relief!!
I'm telling you, all mom's out there who are considering
weather or not to get an epidural....DO IT. I was trying to tough it out until I realized what am I doing....this is not a
competition to see who's the strongest, so if there is something that can help relieve this back pain and the contractions then give it to me now!! Well that really helped with the pain
cuz I was finally able to get some rest and got an hour sleep. Well when I woke up I was having full blown contractions and
dilated from 6 to 10 and that was when the problems began. Because I had
dilated so fast baby did not have time to turn his head into "head down" position and his head ended up staying turned to the right. Well I was very very very
against having a c-section, so the doctor thought if we waited it out maybe his head would turn and I would be able to deliver him normally. Well the next 4 or 5 hours were very intense as I endured
contrations in the hopes of baby turning his head. Well around 8:00 my doctor suggested that I try pushing
again in hopes of his head getting turned. After pushing for 2 hours, still no luck.....and off to the operating room we went. Well once we got in there and all
prepped for surgery we ran into our next problem....I wouldn't freeze....for some reason after all the drugs they kept putting into me, it
wasn't enough to freeze me off so they could cut....If they put any more freezing in then I ran the risk of stopping breathing so the only thing they could do is put me under. Well Ryan had to leave the room and he said he left, got the waiting room, and 2 minutes later heard
Haylen crying!! Well that should be the end to a happy story, but it doesn't end there...... Since baby was so far dropped after pushing, that when they were doing the c-section, and reached in to grab him, when they pulled him out the vein between my bladder and kidney snapped and I bleed out like crazy. After loosing 1/2 of my blood in the operating room they were finally able to control the bleeding and stitch me back up.....end of story....no....they then tell Ryan that when they clamped my vein to stop the bleeding they 'may' have clamped it to tight and if so they have to rush me to the city for emergency
surgery to fix that in the morning.... Well after having an ultrasound the next morning we were given good news that everything looked good between my kidney and bladder, I will just have 4 staples that will stay in me forever!! I was wheeled back to my room and when I woke up I was
completely outta it....and I mean COMPLETELY outta it....
apparently I'm "narcotics sensitive" as the doctors called it, and really I didn't even know my own name for the first few hours after
surgery!!
lol Ryan brought
Haylen over to me to show me him for the first time and over and over and over all I could say is "He's so perfect, I can't believe he's our baby!"
lol, Ryan said I must have said it probably 50 times at least!
haha. Well thanks goodness that
Haylen was a perfectly healthy little boy who knew what he was doing with breast feeding,
cuz the first time that I fed him I don't even remember. The next day I spent
receiving 2 blood transfusions and
recovering while enjoying my sweet little baby boy, laughing while Ryan told me all the
ridiculous things I was saying and doing
until the drugs from surgery wore off! Well to wrap it up on September 22 at 11:12 pm we welcomed our little 7 lbs 9 oz, 21 1/2 inch long perfect little
Haylen into our lives and this past month we
couldn't been any happier!